To be successful, Be Organised first

(Note: This first paragraph will be "chim" , read at your own discretion)

As i look into my room, a sense of guilt and negativity shrouds amongst the tempest. Heaps of negativity surronds every single corner of my room, gathering in groups , coming together like storm clouds about a spinning tornado.

Probably guesed it by now - Clutter . Definition: Stuff that collects but does not have a home.

I'll always remember my secondary schoool teacher Mdm Yaw L.T said as quoted " If you want your As, get organised first" . She emphasised and re-emphasised time and again that success in life (and academics) is largely dependent on our ability to organise our life(and our studies).

I am not fit to teach anyone of my readers how to organise their stuff as i realised my whole room is filled with - clutter. Hidden behind closets and stuffed beneath the bed, clutter is everywhere.

I always wondered why the showrooms in IKEA , condos etc are always so nice and attractive (other than the lightings). Its because there is no - clutter.

I am on a journey now to de-clutter my room and i must say it will be a challenging one(its not a problem;) ). Hopefully i can dictate down the progress of my room here and share with all my readers.

Today points to be noted (strategies) :

1) Keep "like" things together

2) Reframe mindset from

"I should keep it I may need it someday..." --->

"If I ever should need it, i'll buy it again (if that someady ever happens)"

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Life will never be the same!!

What do Friends REALLY mean to you?

Today , shall be the last day in many months to come that i shall see my friend GLEN for the last time. Our friendship date backs to humble beginnings and we were merely accquaintence. However, as i got to know his younger brother GREG a little more , i suddenly realise that this pair of brothers were worthy friends to have.

The "enlightening" thought came during my first 3 months of BMT, it really made me understood something , to describe that "something" would be hardly possible.

But i can sum it up into one question, "What do friends REALLY mean to you?"

lets just say i found an empowering answer to the above question..

To GLEN, i thank you for your trust in me (to the question you asked me twice, i apologise, friends meant alot alot to me after my NS experience so... i may appear a bit "Aggressive" :P) and i really had a good time w/ your company in the days b4 u flew to australia =x

whow look, i am all emotional already=x i am saying things that hasnt even happened in past tense!

To all my other precious friends, i'll cherish every single one of you. Love all of you guys:)

Here is a dedication to these people... (your name may be repeated)

Firstly to those whom have a unwavering trust in me...

Zhen Hui
Shi Long
Shun Fu

To my brothers...

Yi Chuan
Shi Long
Billy

To my mentors..

Cheong Yew
Mr JayDee
Mr MingJie
Mr Rick

To those whom i find friendly and want to know you guys better...

Greg
Glen (*sobs* you're flying)
James (OFI - HTA)
Chun Long (SYFC)
Boon Siong (SYFC)
Jason (ong)
Jason (Jun hong)
Kian Wei
Zheng Bang
Ryan
... many many many more...

To those whom have a dream and are fighting for it now...

Jie Ming
Roy
Lionel
Billy
Shun Fu

And finally to my all loving family

Mr Royston
Mom Bee Lay
Mr Hua Leng
Mr Dan Nee
Sis Diana

And to my idols..

Mr Rick
Mr Lian Jie
Mr Ming Jie
Cheong Yew
Anthony Robbins

LOVE YOU ALL!:)

there are too many more to mention...

And lastly, GLEN all the best in your studies, i'll definitely miss your company. Learn some tricks and we'll meet on the bball court again someday;)

Be careful what you wish for!

It's been awhile since i last updaetd:) so heres a little treat for everyone and that is...

Be careful what you wish for!

Ever caught yourself saying "I wish you are better off dead!" (saying to someone else) or

Ever told yourself "damn i am the stupidest person in the world!"

Be careful!!

Our subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a joke and a fact.

If you repeat "I am stupid" enough times to yourself , even the smartest genius might falter (and become a retard)

Wait Yu Song... what if i told myself "I am NOT stupid"

*Bingo* Your subconscious mind will still register the word "stupid" more than the other 3 words
(If you want to know why, plz contact me via my email : Ben.yusong@gmail.com or gmaluku@hotmail.com (msn) )

So be careful what you wish for.. it may just come true =x

p.s Use this to your advantage instead, tell yourself "I can do it" , " I am smartest person in the world" , even though its not real , your mind will still register it as "true" :)

In short

"Whatever you can concieve and believe , you can achieve" - Napoleon Hill

NS Life

It's been a long time since i made a entry into this blog.

for those who are still tuning in thanks for staying tune :D

NS life has been a challenging one for me, one that has brought about alot of insights for myself .

It really challenges one's mental capacity and one's ability to "win friends and influence people".

It's also interesting to note certain key patterns in people that becomes noticeable after a period of time and see what kind of results they are producing in their own lives.

On a financial stand point, my income has adjusted to approximately S$1,000 per month which would be less than ideal (well if you include my NS allownace and personal allowance it would add up to about S$1,800) =) So thats still alright.

To all those whom i've promised to succeed together with, stay tune to my blog! I will be opening a new blog for the group of people whom i shall be working closely with soon as well =)

stay tune!

Success Habit 5 : The secret to changing the way you feel

Thank you everyone for your continual support for success habits. As habit 5 comes out of the "oven" , i would like to thank Mr Anthony Robbins for his guidance through his books "Awaken the Giant Within" and "Unlimited Power"

3 factors affect the way we feel (our emotions) and they are:

1 ) Physiology
2 ) Langauge we Use
3 ) Beliefs / Focus

Today i'll be sharing with everyone point 2 ) , the words we use

Simply changing the words we use can change the way we feel!

For example when someone made me angry last time , i realise this was what i told myself

" He got my raw nerve now ! Hes REALLY irritating me"

can you see what a strong langauge i had? raw nerve , REALLY , IRRITATING

Its no wonder i felt so angry!

The next time i felt myself feeling angry and hitting the "raw nerve" i asked myself

"What colour is the raw nerve?"

"What if i cooked the nerve , would it be edible?"

That absolutely broke my "Anger" pattern, cause i found it ridiculous and i started laughing.

Then i went on to tell myself this

" He made me feel a little uncomfortable"

" Yea , he pisses me off a little"

I realise after i changed the words i used with myself, i didnt feel so angry anymore!

The above dictates anger.

The same applies to every single emotion we have!

Just follow the two steps :

1) Break your pattern - ask yourself something ridiculous
2) Replace your old words with new & better words

For those of you readers out there , try it out now! (Remember habit 4)

Credits goes to Mr Anthony Robbins for teaching me about the power of words (Please buy his book for further information)

Direct all questions to my email : gmaluku@hotmail.com

Have a great day!

Success Habit 4 : DO IT!

Hi all, success habit is back and running again!! :) Sorry for the gaps between habit 3 and habit 4 , I was personally on a little "retreat" of my own to better my own personal development =)

So as our habits move on to habit 4, dear readers, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE about your life ? (After reading habits 1 to 3)

Today's habit is something very straight-forward - and often over looked. And that is actually getting yourself into the dirt and DO IT!

How often have you heard these statements below....

"I wanna top my class"

"I wanna lose weight"

"I'll change this bad habit of mine"

"I'll get over this my relationship break-up soon"

And a few months later, they are pretty much still the same.

Why ?

The reasons that engulfs this mysterious force of never getting into the dirt cannot be un-vealed in simple words .

But basically, we can draw examples from successful people

A successful person when he sets himself to do something , he will get it done by the following format (adopted from Adam Khoo's book - please buy his book , MASTER YOUR MIND DESIGN YOUR DESTINY for very good info)

Step 1 - 4 :Beliefs --> Goals --> Strategies --> Action
They set a belief for themselves and really believe in it (i.e a great SAVER of $)
They set a goal for themselves (i.e save $10 per week)
They outline a strategy (save at least 20% of allowance everyday)
And DO IT (ACTION ACTION MORE ACTION)

So readers, have you adopted STEP 4 ?

Most un-successful people stop at GOALS and never go on to map out anything.


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